Do not try to reach the success if you want it, just do what do you like most and believe then success will come to you. It’s a word from David Frost. I’ve admired every rich man in my family, I always want to be like them. But, I choose the wrong path. I ended up by doing what they’ve done. I supposed to choose my own path, not just based on what another people’s path. It looks easier to walk on another people’s path but its not fun. You’ll get depressed, and then you will stuck in your works and become their slaves.
Why don’t do what you like most and keep training and exercising until you become an expert, you won’t get depressed because its your hobbies after all and you have additional surplus. You know how to do it better, do it your way because you have your own taste.
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Do not try to reach the success if you want it, just do what do you like and believe most then success will come to you
Thursday, January 15, 2009
When Does It Start?
Probably there is something that you want to do or working on? A passion to do something that you’ve dream about it. When does it start? Why not today? Today is the perfect time to start. Than all of the days in your entire life, there are no other times as perfect as today.
Do you want to start when your preparation has complete? Whoa.. You’ll never ever start (trust me). Fix it one by one along the road and what you’ve been dreaming will come true. A masterpiece doesn’t created in one shot.
Do something is very easy. Everything is in your reach, including today. So what are you waiting for?? The most important thing is start right know because, it belongs to you.
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When does it start?
Do you want to start when your preparation has complete? Whoa.. You’ll never ever start (trust me). Fix it one by one along the road and what you’ve been dreaming will come true. A masterpiece doesn’t created in one shot.
Do something is very easy. Everything is in your reach, including today. So what are you waiting for?? The most important thing is start right know because, it belongs to you.
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When does it start?
Can Still Smile
Have a bad day? This little article might help you out. I am in bad day too, do not ask about the problems just to compare your problems to mine and bragging about how difficult your problems are. People just love to doing that, they bragging about they problem. Stop that!!
Why don’t you smile and keep that stance for about 1 minute? And see your face in the mirror. You can see a friend smiling at you. If you can do that, then you know your problem not as big as it used to. Yell this out to your friend in the mirror who smiles to you : ‘Its not that bad, coz I can still can smile!!’
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Stop bragging about your problem, but brags about how you solve it
Why don’t you smile and keep that stance for about 1 minute? And see your face in the mirror. You can see a friend smiling at you. If you can do that, then you know your problem not as big as it used to. Yell this out to your friend in the mirror who smiles to you : ‘Its not that bad, coz I can still can smile!!’
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Stop bragging about your problem, but brags about how you solve it
The Real Failure
I am an ordinary person. In fact, it’s lower than ordinary person. I have done a lot of mistakes, and failures are something that always in my days. The feeling when what I was doing are failures makes me depressed and frustrated. I even get scared to doing it again, and it makes the job never done.
There is a movie that I have watched. This movie told me that I have to keep trying even though I have failed once, twice or more. Because the real failure is when I stop trying. I found it right because sitting, crying and terrified just don’t solve the problem. When you start to give up, there will be nothing except an empty space in your life, not the red of failure or the green of success. Its better to keep trying according to me especially if you don’t have anything else to do or if the result is worthy.
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The real failure is when you stop trying
There is a movie that I have watched. This movie told me that I have to keep trying even though I have failed once, twice or more. Because the real failure is when I stop trying. I found it right because sitting, crying and terrified just don’t solve the problem. When you start to give up, there will be nothing except an empty space in your life, not the red of failure or the green of success. Its better to keep trying according to me especially if you don’t have anything else to do or if the result is worthy.
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The real failure is when you stop trying
Enjoy Your Life
This life is a very short one, it only last for 70 or 90 years and then you’ll die. Dying is not that bad, there will be no problem to be solved, there will be no tax collector coming to your graves, and you won’t have to worry about the foods (coz you’re dead of course). And about where will you go, if you believe in Jesus then you’re go straight to Heaven and if you believe in Devil, you’re go straight to Hell as simple as that. So let’s not talk about it. We’ll talk about how you’re dead.
I’ve read a book about two seriously sick person with no cure? The first one, tries to prolong his life by using a painful medication. And the second one, not even try to prolong his life instead enjoys the rest of his life with his family and his friend. In the book I’ve read the second one die in peace with smile in his face.
It’s not about how long you live. It’s not about how rich you are. But it’s all about how you enjoy your life. It doesn’t matter if you life 50 years or 50 minutes as long as you enjoy your life there won’t be a regret. Both of seriously sick person with no cure that you’ve read above no matter which one if he enjoy it he will die happier.
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It doesn’t matter if you life 50 years or 50 minutes as long as you ENJOY your life then there won’t be a regret.
I’ve read a book about two seriously sick person with no cure? The first one, tries to prolong his life by using a painful medication. And the second one, not even try to prolong his life instead enjoys the rest of his life with his family and his friend. In the book I’ve read the second one die in peace with smile in his face.
It’s not about how long you live. It’s not about how rich you are. But it’s all about how you enjoy your life. It doesn’t matter if you life 50 years or 50 minutes as long as you enjoy your life there won’t be a regret. Both of seriously sick person with no cure that you’ve read above no matter which one if he enjoy it he will die happier.
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It doesn’t matter if you life 50 years or 50 minutes as long as you ENJOY your life then there won’t be a regret.
STOP and THINK!!
It’s been a while since my last depressed-and-frustrated-tight-schedules condition. It drives me mad when I had to rush in every thing I did. And of course, the result was not in 100%. I can’t think clear which makes me more and more frustrated. Right now, if you are in a condition just like what I was, it’s better if you just STOP and THINK!! You must calm down and try to relax, try to see the whole problems. In that way, you can rearrange about your schedules. And don’t forget one thing, enjoy it. It helps (I know..).
The common mistake that every one did, they’d never STOP and THINK! Not just to think about efficient ways to do your tasks, but to ALSO THINK about the purpose, the goal, the reason why you are doing the tasks. Is it to buy a house? Or to propose the girl of your life? Or you are doing this for the children at home? STOP and THINK! When you know your reason, it will encourage you especially when you know that it worth to be done.
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STOP and THINK!!.
The common mistake that every one did, they’d never STOP and THINK! Not just to think about efficient ways to do your tasks, but to ALSO THINK about the purpose, the goal, the reason why you are doing the tasks. Is it to buy a house? Or to propose the girl of your life? Or you are doing this for the children at home? STOP and THINK! When you know your reason, it will encourage you especially when you know that it worth to be done.
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STOP and THINK!!.
Give Thanks
Bad weather, leaked roof, muddy road, expensive price and people’s bad habit around me can make me depressed, frustrated and absolutely upset. GIVE THANKS are something that hard to be done especially when I face unexpected condition. Just by knowing the advantages of GIVE THANKS itself will help me to GIVE THANKS even in not-able-to-GIVE-THANKS situations. This is a nice advice from someone about GIVE THANKS, hope it will help you just like it helps me to GIVE THANKS in every situation and condition.
GIVE THANKS if you don’t have all of things that you wanted, because when you have everything you will stop trying.
GIVE THANKS if you don’t know about one thing, because it’s a perfect opportunity for you to learn.
GIVE THANKS for the hard times, because it’s the perfect time for you to grow.
GIVE THANKS for your limitedness, it gives you perfect time to improve, fix and correcting yourself.
GIVE THANKS for every challenge and obstacle in your way, it will help you build your character and personality.
GIVE THANKS for every mistake that you have make, because it teach you a valuable lesson.
GIVE THANKS when you fell tired, because you have made a difference.
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GIVE THANKS in every situation and condition.
GIVE THANKS if you don’t have all of things that you wanted, because when you have everything you will stop trying.
GIVE THANKS if you don’t know about one thing, because it’s a perfect opportunity for you to learn.
GIVE THANKS for the hard times, because it’s the perfect time for you to grow.
GIVE THANKS for your limitedness, it gives you perfect time to improve, fix and correcting yourself.
GIVE THANKS for every challenge and obstacle in your way, it will help you build your character and personality.
GIVE THANKS for every mistake that you have make, because it teach you a valuable lesson.
GIVE THANKS when you fell tired, because you have made a difference.
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GIVE THANKS in every situation and condition.
Secret Weapon
Hey, I’m really love professional-secret-agent type movie. You know like James Bond, Cody Banks and etc. They have a lot of cool gadget, like ordinary-look-but-can-kill-or-save-you gadget. Maybe in his watch, his clothes, his glasses or his shoes and his car (they absolutely have 'it' in the car..).
The Agent (in the movie) never show they secret gadget, not even to that beautiful girl beside him. It’s because there will be no fun to show it plus it can also make him lose his life. Recently, I always have my not-stand-above-others attitude with me. Cause its no fun to do such thing. It makes me easier to attract girl you know, especially when you show your secret weapon at the right moment and you pretend it’s just a no-big-deal thing.
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Never show your secret weapon, that why its called SECRET
Now the problem is: Do you have a secret weapon? Well, its not to late to find out…
The Agent (in the movie) never show they secret gadget, not even to that beautiful girl beside him. It’s because there will be no fun to show it plus it can also make him lose his life. Recently, I always have my not-stand-above-others attitude with me. Cause its no fun to do such thing. It makes me easier to attract girl you know, especially when you show your secret weapon at the right moment and you pretend it’s just a no-big-deal thing.
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Never show your secret weapon, that why its called SECRET
Now the problem is: Do you have a secret weapon? Well, its not to late to find out…
Map
Think about a long journey that you have to take. Who will you take with you? You can take anyone, but just make sure you DO NOT FORGET to bring the ‘map’! Without the ‘map’, you won’t make it to reach your destination. . Perhaps by ask someone or beg to the police to guide you (Ha ha..!) you’ll finally reach it more or less. But, sometimes you just DO NOT want to bring the ‘map’. Why?
- You think you’re so smart and confidence that won’t get lost.
- The ‘map’ just don’t fit your style
- If you looking for an option for you to say ‘I forgot!’ then it’s the same with number 1.
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Bring the ‘map’ with you, to guide you. Because you are not as good as you think you are.
Now the problem is: Who/What is your ‘map’?
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